I am a very young, vivacious, and sexy 48 - physically, emotionally, and spiritually, too. In fact, I am probably younger now than when I was 28... I am very feminine and self - sufficient at the same time. I am not looking for a crutch, or a shoulder to cry on - I cry very rarely, but I have to admit that having a strong male shoulder is very reassuring. I am self - sufficient, but I feel I have a lot to give to a person who needs genuine friend and lover. I am not looking to become a mommy to a grown up man who wants me to solve his problems, but I am ready and able to share whatever life dishes up in an equal partnership. I do not pretend I am a man, there is nothing man - like about me. At the same time, I am not pretending I am a helpless little woman anymore - been there, done that.